My ex boyfriend is a psychopath. If you don’t believe me feel free to ask my current one.
Let me give you a backstory.
We dated, for about 6 months and out of the blue ended it with me. Being stupid I got back together with him and a month later he did the same thing, ended it, over msn.
I was devestated at the time.
Anyway cutting a long story short he went straight into a relationship with an American woman.
I was on my own chattig to my current partner, who at the time was just a friend. It became apparent my ex hacked my facebook when me and R sat on msn chatting and we both saw a message pop up on facebook, from me to R…. But I hadn’t sent it.
I checked all my other accounts and sure enough he had hacked them too; he’d sent messages to people pretending to be me so I changed all my passwords.
Over the next few months he would try to hack again, sometimes he managed to get into my accounts. When he couldn’t he would create fake profiles with no information on and message R pretending to know his secrets and would tell.
Anyway about 6 months ago I received a message from a girl who lived quite close to me. So we chatted. She started messaging R too and after a few days I got suspicious. The interests of this girl were similar or the same as the ex, some of the wordings she used was the same but what made it concrete for me was a line she said. I don’t recall it now but at the time I knew it was the exact same thing ex had said to me.
R believed me so we started trolling, putting messages on her wall with ex’s name until we both got blocked.
Fast forward 6 months to this week and I got a message again from this girl (or should I say ex). I let R know and then suddenly he received a message.
We chatted but knowing it was my ex we didn’t quit tell the truth, well not all of the time anyway. ‘She’ wanted to know details of our love life, sex life etc so we made stuff up, told the ex what I knew he wanted to hear (or read). She was saying one thing to me and another to R she was trying to split us up, telling R how she was a million times better than me and since he was chatting to her must be bored of me and want someone new, and better.
After a few days we called her out; suggested we meet, or cam or voice chat. Excuse after excuse, and then contradictions. For instance R was told the webcam didn’t work, yet a few hours later I was told she’d had a webcam session with someone earlier that day.
I looked at my ex’s profile to see if he had put anything on there about this psychotic behaviour, nothing. So I checked his wifes (the american, yes he married her). Again nothing.
We said we wanted proof JosieRedhead was real, and she kept giving excuses but eventually gave her email address and facebook profile. So as a good sceptic me and R checked the profile out, which had just been created. I’m sorry but if you are going to make a fake person do it properly, create the whole life for this character before making them live online.
We called her on this. Suddenly we are blocked again. Shock horror.
Now I know my ex and I know he has his wifes login details for all websites so thought I would check his profile and his wifes, maybe even message her…. Oh wait I’m blocked from both. Now if JosieRedhead is not my ex then why had he suddenly blocked me on his and his wifes account?
Checked the same on R’s account. Again he is blocked but he has never spoken to either my ex or his wife before so why is R blocked? That’s right, this woman we talked to was my ex.
Now he has spent the past week trying to split me and R up and I want him to pay.
I’ve done a bit of snooping and found out his and his wifes address in America, I’ve also learned that his visa is not yet complete even though they’re married so it can be revoked. I figure his wife doesn’t know what he’s been doing since one of her statuses was complaining he wouldn’t come to bed, this was at the exact same time he was messaging me and R as Josie.
Should I be evil and publish his name and address or not? I was thinking of writing to his wife but he can’t work yet so would see the post and being from the UK would know and make sure she didn’t receive it.
Now I have nothing against his wife. She has messaged me in the past apologising, and then had to do it under a false account because he gets on her profiles (which I then went on to tell the ex whilst he was this female character, I knew it would cause friction). I really truly feel sorry for his wife not knowing what a psychopath she has married.
Oh well it will end soon when his visa comes through as he only married her so he could live in the USA. Maybe he won’t get his cisa, not if I have my way. I will destroy him and his marriage for what he’s done.
In case any of you are wondering, his name is Joseph Shield but goes by Joe and he is a psychopathic stalker. One year on, even after he got married is he still trying to mess with my life. In case you meet him in person he is a Brit living in Rome, Georgia (USA).